Oh the day after a big loss in the sports world. The rain perfectly complements the mood of the 49er faithful as the season came to a disappointing end last night… an overtime loss especially hurts.

As I was thinking about how boring the Super Bowl will be in a few weeks, I thought about how it is almost exactly the opposite for the fans and players of the teams who will be playing. And then even the fans of whoever wins this year’s contest.

But soon after, I remembered a quote I once read from Deion Sanders, a famous former NFL player, the night after his team won the Super Bowl:

“I remember winning the Super Bowl that year, and that night after the game I was the first one out of the locker room, the first one to the press conference, and the first one to go home. And I remember my wife, Carolyn, saying to me, “Baby, you just won the Super Bowl! Don’t you have a party downstairs or something to go to?” And I just said, “Nah,” and rolled over and went to sleep. That was the same week I bought myself a brand new $275,000 Lamborghini, and I haven’t even driven a mile before I realized, “No, that’s not it. That’s not what I’m looking for. It’s got to be something else, I’m so hungry.”

Sanders went on to describe how he had finally achieved one of the greatest accomplishments that our nation can possibly think of, and yet he felt as though he hadn’t won anything, and was just as unhappy as before.

Now don’t get me wrong… how I would have loved to cheer on the 49ers to a Super Bowl win this year. I’ve experienced favorite teams of mine winning big events, and it’s amazing. But I can easily forget the reality that no matter what we are pursuing, everything seems to fail us… except Christ. Christ is the only one who can ultimately fulfill this longing. So it shouldn’t surprise us to read story after story of athletes, actors, lottery-winners, and others who have achieved some high award, and yet cannot seem to find the joy they were seeking.

So keep your heads up, 49er faithful (or those of you whose team already lost, or those of you who could care less about football). We have a greater joy, a higher purpose.

“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Psalm 16:11).

 -Dustin

 

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The second deadline for 2012 Summer Projects is quickly approaching. Submit your app by January 24, and hear back about your acceptance by February 28. To apply, or if you have any questions, visit www.gosummerproject.com or ask any Cru at Cal staff.

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So I’m engaged! On New Year’s Eve, I sang her a song, pulled out a ring, got down on one knee and asked the wonderful and beautiful Rebecca Chambers to marry me. And she said yes! I can’t believe how blessed I am.

Leading up to the proposal, I got pretty nervous. I realized how vulnerable I would be while I was down on one knee after confessing my love and pulling out a shiny token of my commitment to her. I was putting it all on the line!

I was reflecting on my commitment to Rebecca earlier this week and was struck by several things in a row. One, I was going to marry Rebecca. That’s a huge deal! Two, I took a big step in telling her how I felt about her and asking if she wanted to marry me. Finally, I thought about Jesus, and how He’s committed to me.

It was a staggering thought! Jesus has already not only confessed His love for me, but also done so much out of His affection for me. He’s put Himself in the ultimate position of vulnerability so that I can know Him and have a relationship with Him. He’s paid for me – not with money, but with His own life.

I’m humbled by that and so thankful that He loves me. It’s weird to think of myself as part of His bride (the end of Ephesians 5 describes the church as Christ’s bride), but as I look forward to Rebecca and me getting married I understand a little more of the anticipation the metaphor conveys.

I’m so looking forward to marrying Rebecca. As we get closer to the wedding, I’m also looking forward to understanding more what it means that Jesus loves me as a husband loves his bride. I hope this encourages you to reflect on His love for you too!

-Justin

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Invest, Don’t Spend

January 9, 2012

My last winter break of college is almost over… I can hardly believe it! I’m entering my last semester at Cal, and I’ve been challenged to redirect my thinking away from “how to spend my time well” toward “how to invest my time well.” There are several lenses that I’ve been personally challenged to think through regarding investing my time and ways that I would love to challenge you too!

1. College is a gift of four years. The Lord has blessed us with the privilege of studying at Cal for four years, give or take a few semesters. Though I often think that I earned my way to Berkeley and that I deserve to study here, it’s actually all a gracious gift that the Lord has entrusted us with. As with other gifts, it is a rich opportunity that we have to use God’s gift in a way that is honoring to Him.

2. Stewardship. Because God has blessed us with the opportunity to be at Cal, I believe that we are to steward our time well. I believe that stewarding my personal time at Cal includes stewarding my resources, my mind, my classes, my relationships, and my time alone. I often find myself wasting time, and before I know it, I’ve spent an hour looking at my friend’s friend’s sister’s Facebook pictures (whom I’ve never met). It seems ridiculous when I write about it, but I know you’ve probably done it before too! Anyways, long story short, God has entrusted us with time at Cal, and we are to steward each part of it for His glory and purposes!

3. Be ready for Christ’s return. My scope has been limited to “these four years at Cal”, but a pastor recently caused me to alter my scope. After all, my purpose is not just to steward my time at Cal, but to steward my life. Why? Because we are to always be living in light of Christ’s return. We are to live with urgency and expectation of His return.

When the pastor who preached the sermon about living in light of Christ’s return, he ended by asking the question: If Christ returned today, would you be ready or would you be rushing to do things that He had called you to do? So my challenge for you (and for myself) is to pray and consider how you can best be investing your time in light of eternity and Christ’s return. First, think about how you can invest your final week at home. Then, think about your next semester at Cal. Lastly, think about your life. My hope is that you don’t see this as a duty, but a beautiful privilege of stewarding God’s gifts that He is allowing us to take part in!

Have a restful final week of break. I can’t wait to see you soon!

-Melissa

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